Comments on: Widows in Vrindavan http://groovyganges.org/2010/04/widows-in-vrindavan/ research assistance in Varanasi Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:07:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: nandan http://groovyganges.org/2010/04/widows-in-vrindavan/comment-page-1/#comment-2707 nandan Thu, 23 Jun 2011 09:43:44 +0000 http://groovyganges.org/?p=1755#comment-2707 Dear Rohit Ji, Why have you take such decision of spending rest of your life in a ashram? You are only 30 years old, you have your whole life left for you. As far as HIV is concerned, believe me it won't affect you much if you take care of yourself by seeing a doctor on right interval and keep taking the prescribed medicines regularly. I work with HIV and AIDS patients here in Varanasi and my experience is that if someone takes the medicines properly and takes care of themselves by living a healthy life then they are also as happy and healthy as any other person living on the planet. Believe me and please forget about your decision of living in an ashram. Medicines are free and have really good result. Please go to your local NACO center and get medicines. These are local NACO centers in Pune: AFMC Pune, Bajaj Auto ITD YCMH Pimpri and B.J.Medical college are three authorized NACO centers where you can get tested and can get free medicines. Please let me know if need any help. And again, please forget about staying at an Ashram. We can and we will defeat HIV:) Be happy and live a healthy life. Dear Rohit Ji,

Why have you take such decision of spending rest of your life in a ashram? You are only 30 years old, you have your whole life left for you. As far as HIV is concerned, believe me it won’t affect you much if you take care of yourself by seeing a doctor on right interval and keep taking the prescribed medicines regularly. I work with HIV and AIDS patients here in Varanasi and my experience is that if someone takes the medicines properly and takes care of themselves by living a healthy life then they are also as happy and healthy as any other person living on the planet.
Believe me and please forget about your decision of living in an ashram. Medicines are free and have really good result. Please go to your local NACO center and get medicines. These are local NACO centers in Pune: AFMC Pune, Bajaj Auto ITD YCMH Pimpri and B.J.Medical college are three authorized NACO centers where you can get tested and can get free medicines. Please let me know if need any help. And again, please forget about staying at an Ashram. We can and we will defeat HIV:) Be happy and live a healthy life.

]]> By: rohit http://groovyganges.org/2010/04/widows-in-vrindavan/comment-page-1/#comment-2694 rohit Fri, 17 Jun 2011 09:45:26 +0000 http://groovyganges.org/?p=1755#comment-2694 i am hiv +tive from pune maharashtra would like to spent my rest of my life in ashram in north india. am 30yrs. old would you help me i am hiv +tive from pune maharashtra would like to spent my rest of my life in ashram in north india. am 30yrs. old would you help me

]]> By: Sandra http://groovyganges.org/2010/04/widows-in-vrindavan/comment-page-1/#comment-2371 Sandra Sun, 20 Feb 2011 04:11:41 +0000 http://groovyganges.org/?p=1755#comment-2371 I really wonder how it is possible when the Society is brain washing women and men to think that widows are bad luck and even richer widows can end up in the street because their family-in-law threw them out. And when Traditions founded on the Manu texts of compelling self immolation to widows, I find that hard to reconcile. I realize that karma can be an evil perception of this world as poverty or abuse are explained by it. That is utter nonsense. Isn't G-d supposed to be merciful too? What kind of G-d has been made in India? I think the greater sinners are those who rejected their own mothers, sister-in-law, etc. Especially when it is done because of greed! For sure, they will have to answer to G-d for their discrimination. I advice you to watch the movie "Water." You will notice that widows are forbidden to remarry. And beside the family will oppose it. It is also interesting to note that in Manu, widows were also supposed to be looked after either by their fathers, or sons at the death of their husband. Beside self-immolation is not practiced any longer. So, these families are gravely sinning. I really wonder how it is possible when the Society is brain washing women and men to think that widows are bad luck and even richer widows can end up in the street because their family-in-law threw them out. And when Traditions founded on the Manu texts of compelling self immolation to widows, I find that hard to reconcile.
I realize that karma can be an evil perception of this world as poverty or abuse are explained by it. That is utter nonsense.

Isn’t G-d supposed to be merciful too? What kind of G-d has been made in India? I think the greater sinners are those who rejected their own mothers, sister-in-law, etc. Especially when it is done because of greed! For sure, they will have to answer to G-d for their discrimination. I advice you to watch the movie “Water.”
You will notice that widows are forbidden to remarry. And beside the family will oppose it. It is also interesting to note that in Manu, widows were also supposed to be looked after either by their fathers, or sons at the death of their husband. Beside self-immolation is not practiced any longer. So, these families are gravely sinning.

]]> By: rudra rampersad http://groovyganges.org/2010/04/widows-in-vrindavan/comment-page-1/#comment-1946 rudra rampersad Thu, 09 Dec 2010 13:44:24 +0000 http://groovyganges.org/?p=1755#comment-1946 the female with the p.hd, she is the biggest discriminater against women. in all religon the supreme personality says be good do good live good we are all his childrens, and any parent with not want their kid to suffer unless you choose that way of life as the english saying theres always a light on the other end of the tunnel.the joys of life is to live and let live as the great mathama ghandi says you walk this world once so enjoy life and use this life to your fullest theres no time for excuses and time waits for no one. you have to evolve with time we are living in a new era and life has to go on. so to make life easy for your old age you have to find a suitable partner and marry. as swamiji dayanand saraswathi says in his book in his book of life. has king dasarat multiple wives so can a women according to hindu rites when a widow loses her husband she washes off the vermillion powder from her head after a period of mourning of a year she can remarry . looking at the social society of these ashrams they are holding women back from moving forward with there lives they are corrupt and want to live of these widows by recieving donations from the rich and charities. as much as the place is sacred god did not put you in this world to await for your death day neither repent for the loss of your husband each individual carries his or her own karma. the parent carries the karma of the child till it reaches puberty, thenafter the child carries his own karma for his next life with his tought and action never the less we reap what we sowed the previous life, we need to evolve as human beings once again you got to make the difference your individual self, we all will have a better life. the female with the p.hd, she is the biggest discriminater against women. in all religon the supreme personality says be good do good live good we are all his childrens, and any parent with not want their kid to suffer unless you choose that way of life as the english saying theres always a light on the other end of the tunnel.the joys of life is to live and let live as the great mathama ghandi says you walk this world once so enjoy life and use this life to your fullest theres no time for excuses and time waits for no one. you have to evolve with time we are living in a new era and life has to go on. so to make life easy for your old age you have to find a suitable partner and marry. as swamiji dayanand saraswathi says in his book in his book of life. has king dasarat multiple wives so can a women according to hindu rites when a widow loses her husband she washes off the vermillion powder from her head after a period of mourning of a year she can remarry . looking at the social society of these ashrams they are holding women back from moving forward with there lives they are corrupt and want to live of these widows by recieving donations from the rich and charities. as much as the place is sacred god did not put you in this world to await for your death day neither repent for the loss of your husband each individual carries his or her own karma. the parent carries the karma of the child till it reaches puberty, thenafter the child carries his own karma for his next life with his tought and action never the less we reap what we sowed the previous life, we need to evolve as human beings once again you got to make the difference your individual self, we all will have a better life.

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