End of life – Sadhus and Sanyasis

According to Hindu Mythology there should be four parts of life, called as Ashrams. The four ashrams are- Vidyarthi, Grihastha, Vanprasth, and Sanyasa. Vidyarthi ashram is the students life which ends after age of 25. People can still be student after Vidyarthi ashram, but they should get married after 25. Grihastha ashram starts 26 and ends at the age of 50. During this period people should get married and have a family. Vanprastha is life between 50 and 75. This is the time when people are supposed to prepare themselves for Sanyasa.

During Vanprastha time people are supposed to get rid of their responsibilities like get their daughters married, help their son to become self dependent. During the same period people should prepare themselves for Sanyasa by start meditating, and doing rituals. Sanyasa start at the age of 76 and lasts until a person dies. People have to perform certain rituals to enter in Sanyasa life. Sanyasis never stay at home. There are monasteries in every Indian city where they can live for free of cast.

Sadhus at the river Ganga

After entering in Sanyasa life people are called Sanyasi. People have to perform a lot o rituals be become Sanyasi. The most important one is to get rid of their body. They stand nude in the river and read some mantras, and by doing this they get rid of their body. They perform all the sacrament that is done after a person does during their lives time. So even though they are alive but their Terahi is done. This is the reason why body of Sanyasis are never cremated, their bodies are always drowned in the river.

After performing this sacrament, they don’t consider themselves as part of the earth, and become Sanyasi. Sanyasa is a very tough life. They are supposed to follow a lot of strict rules of Sanyasa. Few of the rules are- they are not allow to deal with money, they are not allowed to deal with fire, they are not allowed to cook the food, they always have to beg, they have to repeat name of lord Ram for twenty-one thousand times everyday, they are not allowed to eat any food that has a taste etc….

They always beg for food, and wash the food before eating it so that they can get rid of the taste. They always wear a orange dress because orange is the color of Hinduism. Sanyasis who are Bramhan by caste carry a stick all the time with them. They get this stick when they enter in Sanyasa life, and this stick is drowned with their body when they die. No other caste than Bramhans get this stick. This stick is very important for Sanyasis. It is also rapped with orange color cloth.

Usually Sanyasis live in monasteries with other Sanyasis. They spend most of their time just repeating the name of lord Ram. Sometimes their famiily also visits them, but usually they spend their time alone. I have talked to many many Sanyasis while working with researchers, and everything that they told me was surprising for me. Everybody was so happy to say that they were waiting for their death. They say that they repeat the name of lord Ram and tell him to give them death as soon as possible.

Once I was talking to a 70 years old woman who had been living in a monastery for the last 30 years just waiting for the death. This was the first time when I was talking to a female Sanyasi. She said that females don’t go through all the rituals that are done for males. They just leave the family, dress like Sanyain and start living in the monasteries like Sanyasin.They also follow all the same rules as males do. They live in the same monasteries but all the monasteries have a separate section for females.

The woman I was talking to was not a Sanyain. She came to Beanres 30 years ago with her husband. Her husband had TB, which was kind of untreated disease about 30 years ago. When he got TB, he decided to come Varanasi and live last part of his life. A lot of monasteries have a separate section for family people. So if someone who does not want to become a Sanyasi can also live in the monastery by giving a certain amount which covers their room rent until they die.

Her husband died after living for 3 years. But she was still in the same monastery just repeating the name of lord Ram, and praying him to give death. She said that her family visits her once in a year for one week. I was kind of not comfortable asking someone about their death, but she was so happy to answer all the questions. She said she came to Varanasi to die and it will be happiest moment of her life when she gets it. When we asked her about was she sad when her husband died, and she said that she was so happy because her husband got was he was looking for only within 3 years.

We talked to a male Sadhu also who was about 70 years old, and had taken Sanyasa when he was only 35. He took Sanyasa because his parents died early, and he was cheated by his brothers. So he was sad and decided to become Sanyasi. The women we talked to seemed so healthy and it didnt look like she was going to die soon, but this male Sanyasi was really sick and maybe would die soon. He was also so happy to talk about his death. I wonder how someone could be happy talking about their death.

We met one Sanyasi who took Sanyasa to escape from the police. He had murdered at least 10 people and when administration ordered police to kill him, he left his village, came to Varanasi and became Sanyasi. He had been living in Varanasi as Sanyasi for the past 15 years. He family often visits him, give him money and he had kind of family life. He had sweets which he gave us. I am sure he had lots of money. He also admitted that he never wanted to become a Sanyasi, but the police compelled him to become a Sanyasi.

So I met a lot of different kind of people who had accepted Sanyasa. Most of them were just waiting for death and wanted to die as soon as possible. They say that God don’t give death if you have done sin in your lifetime. So being alive as a Sanyasi was a kind of punishment for them. Hinduism says that family life is the best life, better than Sanyasa. I think we have an very famous idea of Sanyasa, and when people feel lonely like after their wives death they want to become Sanyasi or some people just want to die living as a Sanyasi so that their soul could get liberated.

The number of Sanyasis have decreased a lot in recent past years. But Varanasi has still a lot of Sanyasis. Usually people leave their home town and go to other cities to live, but Varanasi is the only place on the planet where people come to die.

179 thoughts on “End of life – Sadhus and Sanyasis

  1. i want to take sanyasi…because i m fed up with life…….no body likes me…. i m waste…. i m alone in this world no bro and sis…. no body understands me…… i m in critical situation….. i attempted sucide also…… even god also not like me………..

  2. Do not try to run away from doing your duty. Do it as well as you can until you are satisfied that you have taken all the efforts. Remember, duty with out attachment itself is sanyasa. Lively as simply as you can and serve the world in some way or the other. Living without attachment is one hundred percent Sanyasa. My wishes to you all. Eternal life is with you right now.




  4. Oh brothers /sisters ,
    You are all the essence of god himself . Born with immense potential within. Don’t try to mock somebodies role . Try to be you . Make intense desire to find the true self . If your desire is at its threshold . Nature will guide you to itself . To be good householder is as difficult as to become a sanyasi. No ashrams are inferior to other. Sanyasasram is not a place for people who collapsed in other ashrams. It is all from ajnanam such message was spread all the world.

    मनोबुद्ध्यहङ्कार चित्तानि नाहं
    न च श्रोत्रजिह्वे न च घ्राणनेत्रे ।
    न च व्योम भूमिर्न तेजो न वायुः
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥१॥
    न च प्राणसंज्ञो न वै पञ्चवायुः
    न वा सप्तधातुः न वा पञ्चकोशः ।
    न वाक्पाणिपादं न चोपस्थपायु
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥२॥
    न मे द्वेषरागौ न मे लोभमोहौ
    मदो नैव मे नैव मात्सर्यभावः ।
    न धर्मो न चार्थो न कामो न मोक्षः
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥३॥
    न पुण्यं न पापं न सौख्यं न दुःखं
    न मन्त्रो न तीर्थं न वेदा न यज्ञाः ।
    अहं भोजनं नैव भोज्यं न भोक्ता
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥४॥
    न मृत्युर्न शङ्का न मे जातिभेदः
    पिता नैव मे नैव माता न जन्मः ।
    न बन्धुर्न मित्रं गुरुर्नैव शिष्यं
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥५॥
    अहं निर्विकल्पो निराकाररूपो
    विभुत्वाच्च सर्वत्र सर्वेन्द्रियाणाम् ।
    न चासङ्गतं नैव मुक्तिर्न मेयः
    चिदानन्दरूपः शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥६॥

  5. I don’t know what sanyas means. But, I want to free myself from all responsibilities. I’m 35 and never married. Career, family life nothing interests me. My only concern is my parents. No-one else! I’m tired of fighting in life against the odds. I want to leave everything. What should be the way?

  6. Pranam Readers,
    i’m Subrat from Odisha,
    As I read all comments,
    when a man or women face any trouble in life,
    he decided to free from that, by doing sanyas. bcoz he does not know real life of sanyasim.
    pliz don’t decide immidiate decision about this.
    Life is like this good -bad-good-bad…

    Go for this If u real feel , if u just bored , take rest , help others like social activities, plant trees & farming for money & food problems.
    it wiil give u happiness of wellbeing.

    Happiness is not on Forest it is on ur own…

  7. Suresh,
    This blog is not here to spread your ideology. By the way, just curious about what does Jesus say about infidels? How should they be treated as per Jesus Christ or Christianity?

  8. I had seen myself and i m so happy with my life and i want sanyas from my happiness and freeness and nor i am fedd up with my life.

  9. Wanted to know where the sanyasini process takes place in varanasi. Please share the information about the monastery

  10. I am a Student I can’t live with this people any more I want to free and peaceful ..hence I decided to been an Sanyasi …so help with the procedure

  11. I want to become a सनेसि
    Not the sick of living. I’m not escape from problem.
    Just I want to be a sannyasi to be a spiritual. And find out the actual meaning of life

  12. I want to become a sanyasi. As I’m getting mental troucher with my Boyfriend (become husband ) about my marriage. I want to study well and get a good job. But I don’t want to marry….he is a good person but he can ‘t understand me. ी Even he never understand me I’m just want to complete my studies and become a sanyasi. I want to dedicate my life to social service. Please help me out….g suicide I advise them to become a sanyasi and serve the mankind.

  13. This is suresh from Chenna reddy guda ..
    I want to take sanyasi….. Because I am fed up with life ….. No body likes me ……. I am waste …… I am alone in this world no brother and sister…. No body understands me …. I am in critical situation

  14. I am good at my life but i am not happy with all this things even when i was at 12 i wanted to become sanyashi but that time all of said whts wrong with you.
    And now am 23 and now also i wish to become sanyashi. Its not wrong with me.
    At always am not intrested in marriage nd all things.but here everybody say its a stupidity of age..
    Age 12 to 23 am jst bcme a sanyashi.
    Its a not wrong with me, i always find ashrams ,guru but i never find.

  15. As a sanyasi I am the right person to answer all the questions in one sentence monkhood is not for those who fed up with their lives it’s for who erroneously seeking for the truth.this path toughest compared to worldly life because you are not sure to get perfect guru now days many were opened shops so called fake gurudoms.and you have to fight with nature and beg for food no accommodation so many other problems persist. If you are still interested then go to 10 day vipasana course and decide yourself.
    Now I am going to satopant for meditation In a cave if you have any doubts come and meet me.

  16. I have a chronic pain issue .I never wanted marry because it will give problem to my other half .So anyone can tell me how attain sanyasa which book to read?.

  17. This is sindhu …. I want to become sanyasi I am married having two children no one like me I do everything for them I have spent time , all the time they see me like devil but I think God won’t see me like that so rest of my life I want serve God anybody help me I am 36yrs old lady pls help me in how to become sanyasi

  18. There is one asram for women of all ages in vrindavan mathura..adress is
    VATSALYA GRAM asram or sadhvi ritambari asram NH2 bhuteswar road dorera khadar uttarpradesh..even mothers and children can stay there

  19. I wanted to be sanyasi ..
    To achieve the goal and that goal is to make India a ture hindu rastra . ….

    I don’t wanna take sanyas for what happens after life …
    I hv dream to do something in my lifetime … I think sanyas will help me to achieve that goal …

    But I don’t know where to take sanyas , how to choose guru and which guru…
    Will math or guru provide me ancient knowledge of scripture and allow me to achieve my goal or not??

  20. M Army me hu 24 yr age h but m Sannyasi bnna chahti hu sari duniya moh maya h bs ab *Hari* k chrano me pura jivn smrpit Krna h……I want to join aashram ang going to sanyaas. I m unhappy in life….and I belived in god only………plz help me ……plzzz….

  21. Hello I m Rahul Mishra from Ahmedabad Gujarat..I want end my life nt want to become sanyasi…so plz help me ..how I can join

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